The Impacts of Divorce to Children
Our society has changed in many
decades. The normal family unit a few decades ago would consist of a mother and
father with children. Children had complete parents
.They got enough attention from parents. Today, it is more common
to see a divorced family. Because of that, many children
in our country are living only with their mother
or father. Actually, divorced family brings three impacts to the children.
First, children
feel that they are different with others. They also think that everyone will
reject them. This situation makes they are out from their social environment.
They won’t believe anyone. They don’t want others know what they feel. In this
case, it will be difficult for them to have new friends or stay close with
their friends.
The children
that come from broken home or divorced family display higher violent tendencies
than they who have both parents living at home. They disobey social norm and do
all what they want. They become rude and sometimes hurt their friend. It is their
way to show their anger.
Third,
children become pessimistic about their marriage or relationship. They can’t
trust their partner one hundred percents. They think it is too risky if they
give all of their heart. Sometimes children from divorced family who already
get married feel that their marriage always in trouble. This condition makes
divorced of children who come from divorced family higher than they who don’t.
In conclusion,
next time if you become parents do your best to keep your marriage and think
how hard it for your children if you get divorced. You do not only break your
marriage but also your children future. It is because divorced always brings
bad impact for children.
